Struggle; struggle is better when accepted, and relish. Struggle do not have to be negative. Struggle is a means in the process, and progress of attainment. Look at struggle as in the coming of birth, of a new life. Don’t run from struggle. Struggle is the working out of something to come. With no struggle, success, more often than not, is gain, and lost, easier, and quickly. Out of struggle, more often than not, come success, with appreciation, and respect of/for it. In anything worth the effort to attain, struggle is the means. Struggle hold process, and progress, when understood.